Becoming a Medium and practicing Mediumship has given me a different perspective on death, dying, and being reborn into the other side—some call this Heaven. I think this is something I have done all of my life, but I wasn't completely aware of my ability to communicate with spirits on the other side.
People who have passed are still the same when they cross over. Whether they were good or bad, they are still the same energy, in my opinion. This may not be true, considering that other Mediums and channelers have the belief and understanding that when people cross over, they are full of love and light. Not to be a Debbie Downer, but I am looking at this from a pragmatic and different perspective.
My experiences with family members and friends on the other side have run the spectrum of ego-based to heart-based interactions. Why do I believe this? I think this because of my experiences writing The Theory of 8, which included identifying incarnated souls by their personalities and what they did in their lifetimes over and over again. It is mind-boggling to me that my loved ones who abused me as a child and have passed over haven't admitted to me their wrongs and apologized to me. Perhaps this has influenced my view about the people who have passed over and what can occur on the other side.
I am looking at these experiences logically and rationally. Souls reincarnate repeatedly until we learn lessons and change our behavior; therefore, they are the same people, energy, or consciousness they were and have always been.
I know that our loved ones help us on the other side and that they have work to do. A spectrum of experiences can be had on the other side, similar to what we have in our physical bodies and realities. Nobody knows everything about the other side, the rules, and what happens there. I am not completely sold on people automatically changing into an angel when they pass over - I have to have some more learning and experiences before I am convinced to change my current beliefs and stance on the other side. I may have to wait until I pass over to investigate this further, and when I do, will somebody channel me so I can let you know what happens there and what people are like on the other side.
A part of me is aware that this may be a lesson and a lesson of forgiveness, but it also may be a lesson for those on the other side. This is all about forgiveness, letting go, and having any expectations of anybody or anything, regardless of the circumstances.
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